Let's face it, weddings are full of traditions. From cake cutting to bouquet tossing, they can sometimes feel a little...well, stuffy. But hey, it's your big day, and at Lucy Can't Dance, we believe in throwing out the rulebook and celebrating love on your terms.
The first dance can be a truly special moment to share with your partner. But what if you have two left feet or the thought of swaying in the spotlight makes you cringe? Don't fret, because there are plenty of ways to make this tradition your own, even if your dancing skills are more rhythmic flailing than waltzing wonderland.
First Dance Fun Facts: Did you know the tradition of the first dance has nothing to do with weddings originally? It can be traced back to 17th-century Europe, where it signalled the start of a grand ball. The guest of honour (think royalty or someone super important) would lead the dance, and then everyone else would join in. So, while the first dance has become a romantic symbol for couples today, it wasn't always about showing off your foxtrot!
Here are some alternative first dance ideas for the non-dancers out there:
- The non-dance dance: This is your chance to get creative! Sway in each other's arms, do a silly little jig, or mime your favourite air guitar solo. It's all about having fun and showing everyone your personalities.
- Just don't do it!: if the thought of dancing in front of everyone feels you with fear, just remember it's your wedding and you can do what you want!
- The playlist power move: Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure of a single song? Ditch it! Create a short playlist of meaningful songs for you and your partner and have your DJ switch them up every minute or so. This way, you can dance (or sway, or bop, or mosh!) a little bit to each one, keeping things fun and unpredictable.
- The flash mob first dance: This is an option for the super extra couples out there. Gather your wedding party in secret and learn a simple choreographed dance together. Surprise your guests (and maybe even your partner!) with an unforgettable first dance performance.
Remember, your wedding is all about celebrating your love story. Don't feel pressured to conform to traditions that don't feel like you. Make the first dance your own and enjoy this special moment together – because at the end of the day, that's what truly matters.
Lucy Can’t Dance is all about celebrating alternative brides who know how to rock a wedding dress and boogie to their own beat. So ditch the dance floor drama and get ready to celebrate your love story in a way that feels uniquely you!